Don't you wish you knew everything?

Most of us have gone through a period of time when we thought we knew quite a bit about most everything.  But, then we turned 20 something and hopefully our perspective started to change.  As we become parents a whole new set of issues and questions seem to jump out at us.  As our kids grow through the teens years, so much changes again and we enter into quite an adventure with some wonderful days and then some very challenging days.  You might have parents around to ask for advice or friends that have already "been there".  But, sometimes the answer or at least some well informed advice is hard to find.    

Most of the adult volunteers at that place have children of their own and understand the limited role that our teen center plays in the life of a student.  We have spent years listening to and interacting with teens and their parents.  We have walked beside parents who are celebrating a success or maybe dealing with their chlidren's legal troubles, battles with tobacco, alcohol and drugs, struggles with depression, self-hurting and thoughts of suicide.  If you are ever in a place where you don't know who to ask or where to turn, feel free to contact us.  We will offer the assistance or resources that we have available.  We understand that we don't have all the answers and, when needed, will point you to others who might be better able to help.  

Please, feel free to stop in or contact us.  We actually do like to see parents visit on Wednesdays or check in on a Friday night.

If you are curious about ways that you could volunteer or help to make that an even better place, check out our "volunteers" or "support" pages!

Rules and Safety 

We want each student (and volunteer) to have a great night when at that place.  We have five rules that everyone must follow so we can keep that place safe and fun for all.
  1. No illegal activities allowed.  There are security cameras in use surrounding the entire exterior of our building and parking areas.  We will not hesitate to notify the police.  Laws are important to the peace and safety of our community.
  2. No illegal substances or beverages allowed.  This is a "teen center" and anything that is illegal for a 13 year old to use or posses would be included.  If it is discovered that a student has broken this rule (and the laws of our great land) the student will have the choice of calling a parent or the police before they leave.   If someone believes that they are of a legal age to use or posess such substances, they will choose to do so somewhere else.  Outside drinks should not be brought in to that place.  There are drinks and snacks available for purchase.
  3. Treat others with respect!  If you have a negative attitude toward someone, do not let your attitude determine your words or actions toward that person.   Drama, abusive language or actions are not welcome.  If a teen is having issues with someone else, they should speak with an adult volunteer.
  4. Teens are welcome on the porch or inside that place.  Almost 5,000 sq feet of the main floor is available for the teens.  If a room is not open or marked as do not enter - do not enter!  Teens are not allowed to loiter in the yard, alley, parking areas or sidewalks.  Since most teens ask... "loitering" means hanging out or standing around.
  5. The 7 inch rule.  No part of anyone's body should come within 7 inches of a part of anyone else's body.  This rule was created by the teens to group a whole list of activities (arm wrestling, hugging, hitting, cuddling, tickling, etc.) into one simple rule.  Some seem to think it is too restrictive until they see someone else break it and get to yell "7 inch rule"